Tuesday, July 22, 2008

How to Attract a Woman - 3 Easy Steps

When it comes to attracting women many men either try to rush too quickly making the girl they like become defensive, or they hold off for so long that she ends up going somewhere else. So what is the best way to attract a woman and where do you start?

Before you attract a woman there needs to be a regular amount of healthy touching. By this I mean that she will flirt with you and put her hand on your knee for example, and you will touch her on the back as she walks past. Physical contact such as this needs to be present if you want to have a romantic relationship with a woman.

I made the mistake early on, of being too shy and awkward around women. Even though naturally I was a pretty warm person, I came across as being cold and disinterested.

This must go both ways. You can get the ball rolling but if you sense that she is not responding or starts to freak out, here are some things you can do to make sure physical contact is a natural part of your relationship.

Firstly, when you meet a girl you like for the first time, it is OK to increase the closeness you feel for each other by touching her on the side of the arm. This is not a weird thing to do and she will take it to mean that you are a friendly and socially adept person.

Secondly, you want to keep up physical contact and make it a normal part of your relationship. For example you touch her back as you show her which direction to go. Increasing physical closeness helps you form a bond with her, and will make sure that she won't forget you.

Don't get too excited and make her feel uncomfortable. She should respond positively at each step of the way and she will also make gestures of physical contact indicating she is interested in you.

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