Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Online Dating - Should You Date Online?

Well, some people are cut out for internet dating and some aren't. If you are the type of person that has trouble "wrapping" your mind around something or someone you can't reach out and touch? Then online dating may not be for you.

Should you date online?

Only if you have enough self control to control the relationship. Some Singles will meet someone online and literally turn their entire life over to them without a second thought. Then when the bottom falls out, they end up feeling pretty foolish! Then they will tell everyone that will listen that online dating doesn't work. When the truth of the matter is that online dating didn't work for them because they stepped into it without the necessary skills.

Should you date online?

Yes...if you can trust yourself to think with your gut and mind...and nothing else. If your aren't blinded by all of the insincere terms of endearment that will be showered all over you! If in the past your relationship problems stemmed from you thinking with your heart? Online dating may not be right for you. At least not now...

If you get involved with online dating and allow your heart and loneliness to control the relationship? You are setting yourself up to be misused, cheated and conned.

Should you date online?

Only if you are a good judge of character. If you can spot a liar and a con man? You will probably fine and safe with online dating.

You must take full responsibility of the online relationships you choose to become a part of.

Learn as many online dating tools as necessary. I have no doubt you will be okay!
Do you know how to: Find...Catch...and Keep the love of your life...in 7 Days?

Friday, April 11, 2008

Finding The One For You Online

Dating,Relationships,Sexuality

With so many eligible singles online, you will be able to find the one for you.

Do you know exactly what you are looking for? Not “kind of”, not “sort of”. I’m talking exactly? You need to know the type of relationship you are looking for. If you aren’t sure, online dating may not be for you.

The problem with not knowing what you want is, how will you be able to spot it, when you see it?

Once you know what type of relationship you are looking for, you can then start finding the one for you online.

What exactly are you looking for in a partner? Not generally, but exactly? What size build? What nationality? Occupation? Religion? What area? With or without children?

All of these “options” must be taken into consideration before going online trying to find the one for you.

It wouldn’t make sense to allow yourself to get involved with someone thousands of miles away if you are opposed to a long distance relationship.

Nor would it make sense to begin communicating with some one over 5’8” if your maximum height requirement is under 5’5”!

Once you believe you may have found the one online for you, you must be willing to explore the relationship. Using every form of communication possible.

Building an online relationship is a little different than building an offline relationship. Online relationships take more time and creativity.

You can find the one for you online, but you must be willing to work at establishing a foundation to build the relationship on.

Isn’t time for you to get started? I’m wishing you nothing but luck!

Monday, April 7, 2008

How To Write an Online Dating Profile

Online Dating Profile Writing Step One: Creating a Handle or User Name

Next to choosing a dating site, writing your online dating profile is the most important thing you can do to attract someone for a date or relationship. What follows is a comprehensive five step process describing how to write a captivating online dating profile to attract a date. So without further ado, let's jump right in.

After filling out the basic demographic questions (age, sex, location) on the dating site that you chose, the next question usually is, "What is your handle?"

A handle (or user name) is the name other members of the dating site will use as your "name". On most dating sites, a handle cannot be used by two different members, thus making it a unique identifier. Very few online dating companies who ask for your real first name like Yahoo Personals does, but in these cases it is highly recommended that you create a fake user name anyway, to ensure your own personal safety.

But not only does your handle need to be unique, it also needs to be personal, interesting and somehow indicative of who you are, without being off putting, too long or a challenge to pronounce. Although pronouncing your handle may seem counterintuitive, (this is online dating after all!) it will come in handy once you start meeting people. Because some people use only their handles as a personal identifier for some time, many online daters will come to use your handle as your "name", and may even greet you by your handle upon meeting face to face.

How do I get a girl?

When I walk by a pretty girl, it makes my heart beat run faster.. And I think, 'Will she be the one? I really want to find love...'


Finding love isn't the issue this moment. It's finding the right girl. Honestly, there really isn't a right girl. Well, there is but it's more like girls. Yes, it is possible. Your ex's can be the right girl but that doesn't mean you're lost without them. Go out there and flirt! Places to out and get your 'thang' on are: the mall, the park, chat rooms, fast food restaurants, etc. Pretty much anywhere.

When you start flirting, there are things you should do.
1. Don't ever go up to her girl randomly and say, "Hey, sweet thang." I swear to God, you'd be the stupidest person there. You'd feel stupid too after she laughs at you and walks away or if she gives you a look that says, "What the **** is wrong with your crazy ass?" and inches away from you. Don't ever.

2. If she's with her friends, slyly walk past her, while trying to get her attention, with your head down a bit ( not all the way down because you'll look like you're really shy and depressed. ), glance at her and crookedly grin. I see it all the time and it makes me want to melt. It's ***y and it works all the time.

3. If you don't get her attention, don't walk back and fourth because it'll look like you're trying to to stalk her really badly. Just somehow walk back near her and drop something, and pick it up. It'll possibly get her attention. If she looks at you after the picking up the dropped object, glance up at her, smirk at your success and coolly say, "Hey."

4. If that didn't work, pick a different girl and do the same thing.

5. Once you're somehow in conversation with her, don't say things like, "You're a real ***y chick."